Comments on: “Press on. Obstacles are seldom the same size tomorrow as they are today.”

By: twisted

twisted — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 15:14:30 +0000

I also wish you the best. I am hoping that you two DO have that big discussion, and not get hung up on stupid, unimportant stuff. Yes, play and all that is important, but being in limbo all the time is more stressful and painful than the worst caning.

This is easy for me to say. I am not in a long distance relationship. But I have seen, and been a part of, long distant relationships. I think the hardest part for us “little s”’s (insert your own title here), is that we do not want to make our “big M” uncomfortable, or unhappy. Especially when we have so little nipple to nipple time together. So we don’t say what we want to, what we need to, in order to keep things smooth. Huge Mistake. So we let it fester and build. Till, before you know it, you blow up over some totally unrelated issue. And later you will hear the M say that if only she had talked to me about this, we could have worked that out long ago.

So (this is way longer than I intended, sorry) the key is the standard “communication is the key” answer. And you can’t accept the we’ll talk about that later answer forever. You can’t continue to be afraid to talk about it, with the fear that he will say, you know? I really don’t want a live-in, closer relationship. Because, even if that is how he feels (and that is valid), then as long as you KNOW that, then you can move on in your mind, even if that move on is to accept how he feels about it, and learn to be ok with it. Or not.

But at least you will know.

Sorry sweetness, I got way windy on your ass!

~twisted

By: nilla

nilla — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 15:09:30 +0000

{{{{(Chloe)}}}}}

whammies and energies to calm you, to clarify you, to help you relax into your visit, to enjoy the moments, and to help guide you on your journey, whereever it leads you…

hugs,

nilla

By: M:e

M:e — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 08:14:44 +0000

I’m with Swan….I wish you both well and hope this trip works some stuff out for you both. There’s a whole bunch of stuff I could share with you based on some conversations with HWMBA but not here, and not till you get home. Give me a shout if you want to when you get back, ok?

love and hugs xxx

By: swan

swan — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 01:56:03 +0000

I wish you well.
I hope that what comes to be is what you need and want it to be.
I hope you are able to negotiate a life that makes sense; that works; that feels secure.
I want you to be able to move forward.

All the best,
swan