Comments on: Let’s Start At The Very Beginning… http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/11/03/lets-start-at-the-very-beginning/ Fri, 23 Jul 2010 15:15:47 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Nilla http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/11/03/lets-start-at-the-very-beginning/comment-page-1/#comment-860 Nilla Tue, 03 Nov 2009 19:33:22 +0000 http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/11/03/lets-start-at-the-very-beginning/#comment-860 er, that last line should say "therein lies the value of the task...and the value of myself as a whole human being, because of being needed. " sheesh. hit the comment print before my brain was done typing! silly fingers! er, that last line should say “therein lies the value of the task…and the value of myself as a whole human being, because of being needed. ”

sheesh. hit the comment print before my brain was done typing! silly fingers!

]]> By: Nilla http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/11/03/lets-start-at-the-very-beginning/comment-page-1/#comment-859 Nilla Tue, 03 Nov 2009 19:30:42 +0000 http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/11/03/lets-start-at-the-very-beginning/#comment-859 Good answer! Thoughtful, insightful, maybe even...cathartic? And I agree, some kinds of kink are born in. Since I am newnewnew at this --and because I don't/can't live the life...it helped me name something inside of me. Does that mean that every time my wife makes a suggestion that I bow gracefully and respond, yes ma'am? Hell no! The "Gloria Steinham" effect is alive and well in my life! But I know, in my deepest heart, that when I submit (her all unknowing) to her wants and needs first and foremost, I feel good about me, too. I understand when you say to be useful. And because i know I am doing it for someone I love, therein lies the value of the task. Hugs, Nilla Good answer! Thoughtful, insightful, maybe even…cathartic? And I agree, some kinds of kink are born in. Since I am newnewnew at this –and because I don’t/can’t live the life…it helped me name something inside of me. Does that mean that every time my wife makes a suggestion that I bow gracefully and respond, yes ma’am? Hell no! The “Gloria Steinham” effect is alive and well in my life! But I know, in my deepest heart, that when I submit (her all unknowing) to her wants and needs first and foremost, I feel good about me, too. I understand when you say to be useful. And because i know I am doing it for someone I love, therein lies the value of the task.

Hugs,
Nilla

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