Comments on: Just Pretending http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/10/22/just-pretending/ Sat, 13 Mar 2010 04:38:54 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Florida Dom http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/10/22/just-pretending/comment-page-1/#comment-848 Florida Dom Fri, 23 Oct 2009 21:12:57 +0000 http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/10/22/just-pretending/#comment-848 Yes, role playing between consenting adults is completely different than pedophiles preying on youngsters. The key phrase here is consenting adults. FD Yes, role playing between consenting adults is completely different than pedophiles preying on youngsters.

The key phrase here is consenting adults.

FD

]]> By: Meow http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/10/22/just-pretending/comment-page-1/#comment-847 Meow Fri, 23 Oct 2009 18:16:25 +0000 http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/10/22/just-pretending/#comment-847 Chloe, Great post! I don't have any problem with role playing and I'm nearer the corpse than the schoolgirl. One thing that I have seen as a mother of two daughters is the looks of "normal" men at pre-teen girls in swimsuits, skimpy clothes, etc. Your previous post about whether or not to bring children into this world hinted that it can be a dangerous place and I may lean more toward that slant than you do. I went from thinking about, reading about, "playing" at my kink to needing the real thing. It isn't hard for me to believe that pedophiles do the same. Of course most age play is not dangerous, especially if you know your partner well, but there are pedophiles who find their prey on the internet, and submissives who seek age play with strangers need to be very vigilant. I'm probably just an over-cautious motherly-type, but please be careful out there! Thanks again, Chloe for a chance to revisit this. Meow Chloe, Great post! I don’t have any problem with role playing and I’m nearer the corpse than the schoolgirl. One thing that I have seen as a mother of two daughters is the looks of “normal” men at pre-teen girls in swimsuits, skimpy clothes, etc. Your previous post about whether or not to bring children into this world hinted that it can be a dangerous place and I may lean more toward that slant than you do.

I went from thinking about, reading about, “playing” at my kink to needing the real thing. It isn’t hard for me to believe that pedophiles do the same.

Of course most age play is not dangerous, especially if you know your partner well, but there are pedophiles who find their prey on the internet, and submissives who seek age play with strangers need to be very vigilant. I’m probably just an over-cautious motherly-type, but please be careful out there!

Thanks again, Chloe for a chance to revisit this. Meow

]]> By: Nilla http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/10/22/just-pretending/comment-page-1/#comment-846 Nilla Fri, 23 Oct 2009 17:10:25 +0000 http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/10/22/just-pretending/#comment-846 Nods, yes, yes. I think any kind of roleplaying is fine. Dress up like a slut...dress up like a schoolgirl. Whatever *waves hand in the air*....it's fine because "it" (how depersonalized is that? "it"...)is an adult making an adult choice. Someone taking that choice from a child is not roleplay. It's a violent agressive attack. Having been that child. mmmm. not. good. Does this mean I never want to role play? Um, NO. Someday maybe I'll get a chance. By then I'll be near 70 and who the hell will role play with me then? Oh,right. the corpse lover. sheesh. Nilla giggling. Nods, yes, yes. I think any kind of roleplaying is fine. Dress up like a slut…dress up like a schoolgirl. Whatever *waves hand in the air*….it’s fine because “it” (how depersonalized is that? “it”…)is an adult making an adult choice.
Someone taking that choice from a child is not roleplay. It’s a violent agressive attack.
Having been that child. mmmm. not. good. Does this mean I never want to role play? Um, NO. Someday maybe I’ll get a chance. By then I’ll be near 70 and who the hell will role play with me then? Oh,right. the corpse lover. sheesh.

Nilla
giggling.

]]> By: kaya http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/10/22/just-pretending/comment-page-1/#comment-845 kaya Fri, 23 Oct 2009 11:47:02 +0000 http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/10/22/just-pretending/#comment-845 Amen. I get sick to death of hearing/seeing people turn around with the accusation of "Pedophile!" when sexual age-play is brought up. Like chicken said, a pedophile isn't going to be satisfied with an adult woman acting like a child. If they could be, they wouldn't risk prison over getting that child. I don't know what part of role play is so hard to understand. Sheesh. Amen. I get sick to death of hearing/seeing people turn around with the accusation of “Pedophile!” when sexual age-play is brought up.

Like chicken said, a pedophile isn’t going to be satisfied with an adult woman acting like a child. If they could be, they wouldn’t risk prison over getting that child.

I don’t know what part of role play is so hard to understand. Sheesh.

]]> By: chicken http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/10/22/just-pretending/comment-page-1/#comment-844 chicken Fri, 23 Oct 2009 01:08:29 +0000 http://obey.thenaturalorders.com/2009/10/22/just-pretending/#comment-844 I could not agree more. Sorry, I'm just a lurker. But there's a giant difference between a man wanting to see his ADULT lover play the role of a young girl and a man that wants to molest a young girl. In no way, shape or form would a child molester be satisfied with a woman playing the part of a little girl. They go after little girls. I could not agree more.
Sorry, I’m just a lurker. But there’s a giant difference between a man wanting to see his ADULT lover play the role of a young girl and a man that wants to molest a young girl. In no way, shape or form would a child molester be satisfied with a woman playing the part of a little girl. They go after little girls.

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