I’m male, got out of an abusive relationship where I was the one abused. I know part of me wanted it, and if she had ever stepped up and been dominant, we might have been happy, but she never did, she just abused me, but never demanded of me, and it was horrible.

So we divorced eventually when I finally had reached a limit and crawled away. Now I’m learning to love myself and not need to be submissive. It’s weird reading your thoughts. They were my thoughts once… but don’t seem to echo anymore.

I don’t know why I needed to share this. It just kinda came out since it’s what your blog makes me think about.

@ numaari – Heh. Nothing is WRONG with lurking, I promise. I just like hearing from people who read. It makes me happy. So thanks for piping up. Now, at least, I know you’re in my audience!

I’m introverted as well as submissive, so I often have nothing to say. That doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy what I’m reading, okay?

Because I do enjoy it. Thank you.

I started writing a blog all about you, you know. And now I don’t know where it is. All I have is a saved conversation where we talked about the exhibitionist bug so many BDSM bloggers seem to have caught, and at the end you said “brb, gotta piss (blog THAT baybee)”

Which was brilliant, obviously and SHOULD get blogged.

ALSO, I’m sitting on msn hoping you will turn up an have been since you sent this comment but I DON’T SEE YOU. *purses lips* WHERE ARE YOOOOOOOOOU?!?! I’mma go get my phone and poke you.

<3

@ Alan – I prefer to think you guys are in cahoots, if only because “cahoots” is such a hilarious word.

@ Impy – Just THINK where the world would be without naughtiness? In shambles, that’s where! So, by that logic, we are saving the world by fostering naughty behavior in each other. *nods*

@ Ellen – Hi! YAY, I love people who talk to their screens. I do it too, you see, and it makes me feel less insane to know I’m not alone.

@ Hermione – Well, you lurked for a second or two before hitting “submit comment” so I reckon you count.

@ lexa – Hi missy. *grins* You’re very welcome. Thank YOU, for your blog. You rock.

@ Bonnie – Hi! Thanks! I hear you’re the starter of LOL day. (Or is that just internet legend?) So thank you for stopping by.

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You collected a fine group of lurkers! Well done.

Thanks for joining in the LOL Day festivities.

Hugs,
Bonnie

although not a lurker, i’m still stopping in to say hello (because procrastinating on completing the homework by reading your blog is so much better!)

thank you for such lovely words for the great reads post!!